It’s the end of another month. You glance at your bank account, and surprise surprise…it’s exactly the same as last month. And the month before that. And the one before that.
You take a moment to reflect, thinking back to four weeks ago when you promised yourself, “This month I’m going to make more.” You realise you’ve been saying this to yourself for much longer than you care to admit. “What’s going on?” you wonder aloud. “I’ve tried so many different strategies, and I’m still in the same place.”
Take a closer look. Did you actually take the new opportunities that came your way?
Did you know, deep down, that there was an investment that could have given your business that much-needed boost, but at the last minute, you backed out?
Or did you continue working with clients who didn’t resonate with you, simply because you felt it was “guaranteed money”?
If any of these situations sound familiar and you’re tempted to blame yourself, stop right there. The truth is, you weren’t failing. You were simply simply following an unconscious pattern that’s been running the show without you even realising it.
Uncovering Unconscious Money Patterns
We don’t even know we’re doing it. A lot of these patterns are rooted in our childhood experiences.
Think about it what did you hear about money when you were growing up? What was the general attitude in your home about wealth?
How did your parents or carers behave when it came to money? Were they hesitant to spend more than a certain amount?
Did you hear the phrase “money doesn’t grow on trees” repeatedly?
These early experiences and lessons shaped your beliefs about money, and without even realising it, you’ve carried these patterns with you into adulthood. And now, they may be influencing your decisions—both big and small.
You might find yourself saying, “I should know better by now.” But here’s the thing: when your mind has to choose between logic and emotion, emotion almost always wins.
The emotions you’ve experienced in the past have become deeply ingrained in your nervous system. Even when your logical mind tries to step in, the emotional patterns from your past can overpower you, holding you back from the growth you truly desire.
The Subconscious Mind at Play
Ever had one of those moments when you were about to meet with a high-value client, and suddenly your your internet goes off.
Or maybe you’ve been ready to make a crucial investment in your business, only for an unexpected fear to hold you back at the last second?
This isn’t just bad luck or coincidence. It’s your subconscious mind being driven by emotion. Your mind is still influenced by those old, ingrained beliefs about money beliefs that were formed when you were younger and these emotions can impact your decisions in ways that might not even make sense to you at first.
Once you recognise that this is happening, that’s when the real change begins. Understanding these subconscious patterns is the key to unlocking your full potential and breaking free from the cycles that have been holding you back.
Repetitions Are Not Failures, But Feedback
It can be incredibly frustrating to feel like you’re stuck in the same cycle month after month. You might even start to feel like nothing will ever change. But here’s something important to remember: those repetitions aren’t failures. They’re feedback.
When things don’t go as planned, take a step back. Look at the situation objectively, and ask yourself: What did I learn from this experience?
What would I do differently next time?
Write down these insights, and the next time you feel that same pattern creeping in, pause.
Take a moment to choose your actions consciously, rather than reacting automatically based on emotion or fear. The more you practice this, the easier it will become to break free from those old patterns.
A New Path Forward: Conscious Choices
Breaking free from these unconscious patterns won’t happen overnight, but it is possible. The first step is awareness recognising the patterns, understanding where they come from, and choosing to shift them.
From there, you can start replacing them with conscious beliefs and actions that align with the success you deserve.
If you’re ready to stop repeating these old patterns once and for all, it’s time to make a shift. A Timeline Therapy session with me can help you release those blocks quickly and start creating new, empowering beliefs around money.
If you’re seeking a more long-term transformation, my Magnetic Money Method can help you unlock the potential of your business through a tailored 3-month programme.
This is a deeper level of support to ensure you break free from limiting beliefs and step into a new, abundant way of thinking and living.
Are you ready to release those old money patterns and start living the life you’ve always dreamed of?